Sunday, May 30, 2010

So Near Yet So Far

Everyone knows this thing called L-O-V-E.

Yes, I'm talking about love.

It comes to you in various ways and sometimes in ways that you'd never expect them to come to you. One might search for it and one would rather sit and wait til the right person comes and drag them of on a shiny white stead.

It might surprise you or you just had seen it coming all along but are waiting for that person to make a move.

Or you might want to risk it all and brave up to tell that person that you like or love them.

Hey, a relationship does not always start with a straight 'I Love You' phrase. In our modern world, it might start with a simple comment on Facebook or a text message asking for something random.

It will then develop into a daily text that you unexpectedly feel anxious to get them. Or even waiting beside your handphone, counting the clock ticking until the next text message comes.

If you are lucky, you might end up going out with them or the other way round.

Alas, in the situation that my friend were in goes a little bit like the above but what happens when the person you are texting and going out with is your best friend's ex?

Oh I know what you're thinking. 'It's not right', 'Doesn't it feel awkward?', 'Why would you want to date with your best friend's ex?! O.O' and 'Don't you read the unwritten rule of the dating world?! >:('.

Ok, I just made up the last one :P Hehe

Before I go further, let's just say my friend is 'A' and her best friend is 'B'

In A's situation, B had clearly said that B's okay with A dating with B's ex. So what is the problem?

Well, B's ex find it weird and wrong to be dating A. So B's ex told A that he can't date A and suddenly the ex deleted his Facebook account and dissappeared out from the sight.

I can show you stuffs to prove that B is completely fine with her BFF dating with her other ex but obviously because of certain reasons I can't.

One thing's for sure is one of B's BFF is currently dating one of B's exes :O

And why B is so okay with her BFF dating her other exes is because she's got her head up on cloud 9 with other guys :P

Another interesting thing is B's ex never told A that he likes her and A had never even mentioned that she likes him (or maybe they did not realize that they have feelings for each other).

As I said before, things happen in a way you never expect them to be whether you've seen it ahead or it holds you with surprise.

I am waiting to see what happens next in A's life. Would B's ex finally realize that B is okay with it and be with A or will he try to hide his feelings from her and regret it later?

Willwritelater XP

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